Alternative Dispute Resolution

Every divorce does not have to end up in the courtroom. At Turnbull, Nicholson & Sanders, P.A. (TNS Family Law), we provide alternative dispute resolution (ADR) services that provide families with a way to resolve legal issues outside of traditional litigation. For many people, ADR provides a structured, private, and efficient way to resolve legal issues without the volatility of traditional litigation.

At TNS Family Law, our experienced ADR attorneys help you determine if these methods align with your goals. ADR isn’t a way to avoid difficult conversations; it is a way to have them productively, in a setting designed to reduce conflict and keep you in the driver’s seat of your own future.

When Is Alternative Dispute Resolution Appropriate?


Alternative dispute resolution allows parties to resolve disputes without having a judge make final decisions for them. In family law cases, alternative dispute resolution commonly includes mediation, settlement conferences, and other structured negotiations. While it can be effective in many situations, it is not right for every case.

While litigation is sometimes necessary, many clients find that ADR offers a more dignified and customizable path forward. Key benefits include:

  • Greater Control: You and your spouse make the decisions, rather than a judge who may only spend a few hours on your case.
  • Privacy and Discretion: Unlike court proceedings, which are matters of public record, ADR takes place in a confidential setting. Discussions, negotiations, and agreements reached through mediation or collaborative law remain private, protecting sensitive family matters from public exposure.
  • Cost-Efficiency: Streamlined processes often result in significantly lower legal fees and court costs.
  • Creative Flexibility: ADR allows for “out-of-the-box” solutions for property division and parenting schedules that a court might not have the authority to grant.
  • Emotional Preservation: By reducing the adversarial nature of the process, ADR helps protect co-parenting relationships and minimizes the impact on children.

We Take a Balanced Approach to Alternative Dispute Resolution

At TNS Family Law, we believe in a balanced approach to family law representation. While we regularly use alternative dispute resolution to help clients resolve disputes quickly and discreetly, we also recognize that some matters require litigation. Entering alternative dispute resolution from a position of preparation and legal strength is essential.

Our attorneys prepare each case with the understanding that it may be resolved through alternative dispute resolution or proceed to court if necessary. This approach ensures that you are not pressured into agreements that do not serve your best interests.

Alternative Dispute Resolution Can Provide Greater Privacy

One of the most significant advantages of alternative dispute resolution is confidentiality. Unlike court proceedings, which are part of the public record, alternative dispute resolution takes place in a private setting. This can be especially important for professionals, high-profile individuals, business owners, and families who value discretion.

Support Constructive Solutions with TNS Family Law


Alternative dispute resolution is not about winning or losing; it is about reaching agreements that allow families to move forward with their lives. Our role is to guide you through the process, explain your options clearly, and ensure that any agreement reached is as fair and sustainable as possible for you and your family.

If you are considering alternative dispute resolution or have been asked to participate in mediation or another non-court process, TNS Family Law can help you. Contact our office to schedule a confidential consultation and learn whether alternative dispute resolution may be appropriate for your family law matter.